Having children is one of the goals of the family and is the dream of most couples who have married. The presence of children can be a baby and a sign of love from husband and wife. A baby is also generally expected by the parents of the couple who wants to have grandchildren. However, sometimes having children is not always easy for some couples. Some may have difficulty so that even after many years of marriage but has not been blessed with a baby. What are the problems that occur when hard to have a child. So how good solution to solve it?
Realistic Thinking
Each partner should be realistic and not in a hurry to think that there is a problem due to not having children after some time. After marrying and having sex between husband and wife without contraception with reasonable frequency, it normally takes about 1 year to determine whether or not there are fertility problems. There are couples who have married a month, but because his wife is not pregnant and thought that there were problems with their fertility. Though fair within 1 year, 85% new couple will have a child. If more than that time period then it is time the couple went to the doctor.
Who's Wrong?
Do not blame yourself or spouse if you are not able to produce offspring. In some cases, the wife who is blamed when not pregnant. Women are often considered to be barren and subject to error. Keep in mind, that has not got descent does not mean the wife is not fertile, but fertility should be examined also from husband. The possibility of a wife or husband who has a problem is 50% versus 50%, or balanced.
Immediately consult your problem to the doctor to get a solution. Having children is not only desire a husband or wife and can be facilitated if the two do not have reproductive problems. Talk to your partner with words that do not offend him to see her, because indeed it is for some people is a sensitive issue. Determine the time and the right atmosphere to talk about it.
Checking Fertility
At examination, the husband is checked how many sperm are produced, how the movement of sperm and sperm condition. As for the wife, the examination includes egg cells are produced and whether the channel for the sperm to the egg open. For those of you who regularly menstruating is likely to have a normal egg. Results for the husband is usually faster because it's easier to be examined.
If the examination results indicate you and your partner is normal, it does not mean a period soon wife to be pregnant. It takes patience and do not be too stressed because of a rush or the pressure parents. Stress conditions may make it difficult of conception. Also, after having sex, do not be too quick to clean it so the sperm immediately disappear. Let stand for about 15 minutes.
If it turns out you or your spouse does have a fertility problem, do not despair because in many cases it can be treated with various therapies and modern medicine. Do not also blame each other because it does not mean your marriage will not be happy.
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